How to deal with your child's abortion?
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- Category: Teenage parenting
At certain phase in life, many mom’s are forced to take the painful decision to have an abortion. This is very difficult topic to handle as it is a matter of life and death (as many emotional and lovable bonds are involved.
We know that in all our heart the question arises, do someone have the right to live”? The obvious answer will be yes.
Yet, the option of abortion keeps mom’s haunting and to act upon the option is never easy. Majority of women do not get an emotional support which they require after dropping their child.
There are some emotional effects of child abortion:
- Increased tendency towards anger
- Loss of self confidence
- Feeling of loneliness
- Difficulty in maintaining or developing any relationship.
- Some women begin use of alcohol and drugs.
- Feeling guilty
Some don’t realize their grief even after some years later when finally they are ready to become a mother. Most of the women don’t feel sad after having an abortion as it is a necessary choice for them and that’s why they do not cure properly. They simply play with their lives. So this is not the best solution to swallow your sadness. You have not only lost a child, you have also lost your potential of being motherhood. Until now.
You might notforgive yourself for mistake which was happened in past which is the hardest step of your life. First of all accept) what you are and then forgive yourself for the mistake which was made by you in past. Think positively, so that you will be a better mother in future. Always (be) ready for new changes in life ; just because you dropped your child in past doesn’t mean that you will never become mother in future. You need to enjoy being as a mom. Once you forget the past, then you just need to enjoy and spend time with your child. It is really a valuable gift, which you must cherish, be thankful and never take it as granted.
